These rites include: prayers at the time of death and thereafter, a vigil (wake) service allowing time for prayers and support, a Mass of Christian Burial celebrated for both the living and the dead, and committal (burial) in a cemetery as the final resting place. 

Prayers After Death – A rite that is sometimes requested by families. It may be used when the minister first meets with the family following death.

Vigil for the Deceased (wake) – The vigil for the deceased is the principal rite celebrated by the Christian community in the time following death and before the funeral liturgy. At the vigil the Christian community keeps watch with the family in prayer. It consists of a few appropriate scripture readings, prayers, and an opportunity for a family member or friend to speak in remembrace of the deceased. These can be held at church, home, or a funeral home.

Funeral Liturgy – The funeral liturgy is the central liturgical celebration of the Christian community for the deceased. The community gathers with the family and friends of the deceased to give praise and thanks to God for Christ’s victory over sin and death.

Pre-Plan – Work with your preferred funeral home or cemetery to plan your funeral now so your family doesn’t have to and so they can feel confident they are following your wishes.

Funeral Home – Call the funeral home. It’s easier to coordinate plans (times and locations) through the funeral home. At some point, the funeral home contact will schedule a meeting with the family.

Parish Contact – Please do not hesitate, if you wish, to reach out to the parish to inform them of the passing of a loved one so that the parish minister can ready himself or herself for a call from the funeral home. The parish community can also begin offering prayers for the family and your loved one. A meeting with the parish contact can be scheduled at this time.